As the primary caretaker for my son, I found myself taking on all the parenting responsibilities. It wasn't because my husband didn't want to but because I felt I had to. Turns out I was excluding him and taking away his opportunities to learn how to parent. In this episode, I go over some of the steps we took to make both of us happier.
I made it to MommyCon!!! Definitely a fun and awesome experience for mothers to connect with likeminded women living in the same area.
I absolutely loved the event and recommend you check it out.
This is not a paid post. Just sharing information about an event that I found super valuable.
Here is some info from the MommyCon website:
"MommyCon takes a gentle and positive approach to educating parents about the emotional and physical benefits of natural birthing, breastfeeding and babywearing. We advocate values of holistic health, eco-friendly diapering, child safety standards and procedures, and female self-care and wellness. Our mission is to create a community of support, acceptance and non-judgement for women journeying through parenthood."
If you have a MommyCon coming up near you, listen to this episode, grab your baby, your partner, and some friends and go!
Melanie Santos is a cosmically connected New Yorker, millennial Latina, wife, mother, and self-love and mental health advocate dedicated to shining her light in an effort to stimulate change. Using her online social presence, she motivates her followers to reach deep within, connect with their higher selves, and manifest their best lives by living purposely and loving unconditionally.
MEL À LA MODE caters to women of all walks of life with a focus on overall empowerment, spiritual enlightenment, modern parenting, budget-friendly fashion and organic beauty, travel, the promotion of self-love, and the destigmatization of mental health.
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Right after having baby, I experienced this great deal of mourning of the person I once was and the life she lived. Now, 16 months later, I reflect on how much I've changed and give you permission to mourn while showing you how to embrace your new life. The new you.
Before you listen to this episode, make sure you listened to Episode 032. It's all about how and why we started night weaning.
This episode is the tail end of that experience. I'm proud to say that we are all much happier as a family.
Night weaning is NOT a necessary step for a breastfeeding relationship. Mothers and their children can nurse for however long they want and whenever they want. Night weaning is an option for you if the night nursing relationship is no longer working for you. There are so many options on how to night wean.
I read the Jay Gordon method, the Dr. Sears method, and a couple of mommy blogs to see how they night weaned. We chose to follow Dr. Sears advice to have the non-nursing parent wake and console the baby. It worked best for us. If you want to night wean, have a conversation with your partner and decide what's the best way to proceed. Then move forward as planned. If your child responds well, continue going. By well, I mean there will be some crying but they eventually fall back to sleep and begin understanding the process. If you're child does not respond well, reassess if this is the best decision.
Good luck and please let me know how it goes! Please subscribe, review, and share the podcast with your friends.
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So the time has come. I decided that I should cut night time feeding out of mine and my son's breastfeeding journey. It was a very hard decision to come to but he started to become very aggressive and demanding about when and for how long he wanted the boob in his mouth at night time.
I was becoming angry and uncomfortable and I decided that I needed to set boundaries. I nursed on demand for 16-months. Its been a very emotional experience for me and we are only three nights in.
This episode is a very real account about how we are night weaning and what I am feeling. Please be kind. I'm so sensitive right now. I decided to record the episode because other moms told me they want to night wean but can't find the real life accounts on how it affects everyone's life. Most of the content out there is from professionals and it all seems so smooth. But its not a science. So here's my contribution to the realness of it all.
As an empowerment and wellness mentor, Elvira Cabreja helps ambitious women take strategic action to reach both their short term and long term goals.
It is her passion to work with women one on one and give them the support they need to turn their dreams a reality.
Elvira discusses the births of her three daughters and the impact that time, education, and advocacy has made on the birth industry and profession. At her first daughters birth, she was not allowed to walk around to labor and doctors and nurses attempted to persuade her not to breastfeed. By the time her third daughter was born, things changed in the labor and delivery room. She was allowed to labor as she felt her body needed to and breastfeeding was less of a fight with hospital staff. It was actually encouraged.
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I was hesitant to post this episode because I don't want to jinx it but my son has been sick a handful of times between colds, the flu, and the stomach flu and I've managed to keep the germs far away from me.
In this episode, I give you my personal tips on how to remain healthy when your household is ill. Many of my tips are lifestyle changes to boost your immune system year round and not just while the sickies are in your home.
In this episode, I give you details on the products we used for our son. Every product mention is one that I felt has really given me lots of use for its cost.
Babies are newborns for such a short time and having products that they can use beyond the newborn stage is always helpful.
Links to products COMING SOON.
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A little on my postpartum experience and the products I used to help me overcome a few challenges.
Earth Mama Organics products: https://earthmamaorganics.com/categories/postpartum.html
Medela Tendercare Hydrogel Pads: https://www.medela.com/breastfeeding/products/breast-care/hydrogel-pads
Lansinoh Therapearl 3-1 Breast Therapy: https://www.lansinoh.com/lansinohr-therapearlr-3-in-1-breast-therapy
Medela Washable Bra Pads: https://www.medela.com/breastfeeding/products/breast-care/washable-bra-pads
Memory Foam Wedge: http://amzn.to/2ElsrSd
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I began following Cisca because of her beautiful photos on her Instagram feed. Once I started digging deeper, I learned more about her story and background.
Born and raised in South Africa, she is a first time mom to Hudson. Taking on a journey that is sometimes met with questions and uncertainty, but filled with giggles and cuddles in between the poop nappies and burp cloths!
Her story offers much insight on what it feels like to tread through the journey into motherhood. From the loss of a parent, to an unplanned C-section, a stay at the NICU, and postpartum depression, Cisca's strength and her support team guided her through difficult times.
A great listen.
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